so, you think you’re special huh? Well according to him you are. But lets weigh in on this. What makes your vagina better than mine or hers? You think somehow that your stroke is better and that the way you move your hips is better, and that you are all he can think of. You must be younger, and prettier and just more everything all around. Honesty. You’re NOT speshul at all. He can have you and anyone else that he wants whenever he wants to. But you got options.
1. Get what you want from him physically and squash the emotions. (If you can, because most women attach sex and love or equate love and sex). However, One can be present without the other. Example: He may love having sex with you, but not actually like your ass at all.
2. Stop bragging and trying to think you’re so hot and that he only has eyes for you. Granted a bit of an ego is necessary. I’m not saying walk around like shy school girls and pretend to be timid and docile. I’m saying, stop comparing yourself to other women. That shit don’t look good.
Men are in tuned with your thoughts and feelings on competition and they can smell it a mile away. They can look at a girl and tell if she’s the competitive type. Most women are. We size each other up and go for what we know and put our best ass cheek forward and perk those boobs up to look for voluptuous and all for what? To be the chosen one. Wello, which is a crosss between Hello and Well, if your boobs are so special and that keeps him coming back for more, and that is the ticket to get you a walk down the aisle…ummm why do women who have very little in the chest department actually get men to stay with them? Do you think it’s because maybe that woman has something that isn’t superficial? She’s not all about the outward appearance. She knows that she better bring something else to the table. Education; personality; etc…
Did you know that men love it when women fight over them? It does wonders for their ego. But it crushes your self esteem and you become his puppet.
Yes friendly competition is desirable, but at what cost? All of your dignity and self respect? So what if you’re better in some regards, does that really make you a winner? Not hardly. It makes you a fool. Especially when you’re going on what’s on the outside as the basis for a relationship. Have you ever seen ANTM. Americas Next Top Model? The show boasts young girls who all are gorgeous with the same petite bodies and frames with the same eager eyes and same wanton spirits when it comes to winning, yet what makes them different? Their own thoughts and precepts. That’s what. It’s not about being a size 2. If you are a size two but you have the confidence of a goodyear blimp, that won’t make for a good partner.
You should consider finding something in yourself that is attractive. Beauty is worth beholding. Your beauty is worth sharing, but not when it comes at the expense of another woman. Do not put other women down in order to elevate yourself. That is the golden rule of being a woman. DON’T DO IT! He will abuse your spirited nature for his own needs and when you find out through the grapevine that you weren’t the only one, and not his first choice, you will be crushed.
TAKEHIMORLEAVEHIM 